How Do I Become One of Your Personals?

On a personal level, I am in a wonderful relationship with an amazing man.  He is extremely supportive of my choices regarding my modeling, website and as a professional switch. We are a poly couple and I am looking for several personals. 

I am looking for a FEMALE sub/slave who would serve me on and off camera. I will ALWAYS consider taking a crossdresser or tgirl. The only male personals I am considering at this time are men who wish to serve me both on and off camera and are into strap on play, trampling, and taking part in boy/boy  play or financial slaves. 

Becoming my personal is not easy and it's honestly something that many can't obtain. It is earned through service and devotion. Being my personal sub/slave is far more than just being my personal video slave although to earn my collar you must first serve as my video slave.

If taken as a personal sub/slave our  dynamics would extend beyond videos. You would be my property and although I respect all limits and protect my property to the fullest you would be my property. Not my girl friend, not my boyfriend. My property. To me there is a difference. The difference being the power dynamic will ALWAYS be there if you wear my collar. 

I do currently have some wonderful video slaves and am always looking for other video slaves/subs. What is a video slave?  

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What do you get, as my video slave?

What do you get, as my video slave?

I am often asked what a video slave gets out of serving me- it seems obvious what I get out of it. I get your service, your attention, your desire to please me. What do you get, as my video slave?

I consider a video slave or sub, a service oriented person-who is fueled by the desire to “do” something meaningful for me. Something that they know is going to benefit me and make my life easier.  

Although I am in total control of my video sessions, this is the video slave’s opportunity to be pleasing, to express their desires, to allow me to push their limits and boundaries. The video sessions are intimate and a true bonding time.   Dominance and submission is anchored in the mental body, there is power exchange between me and my video slaves. Both during the scene and when we are simply having a casual conversation or time together. You are not my boyfriend or girlfriend and you will never be treated as such.

Some think that the only time a video slave serves me is during the video sessions. However, when the camera is not on you still are expected to be pleasing. To conduct you in a manner that reflects well upon me and those within my fold. 

What is a professional switch?

What is a professional switch?

A professional switch, is very similar to a lifestyle switch in some ways. The first being like the lifestyle switch, a professional switch is both dominant and submissive. They also often can an do use the same tools, play space, and clothing. Professionals are not certified and are not always more "educated" than lifestyle switches. 

A professional switch simply sees paying clients. Some call the payment a tribute, personally it is simply payment for services. To me tribute is a gift. 

Although I have attended many demos, classes and have tons of personal experience. I don't consider myself better than a lifestyle switch. Heck, I am also a lifestyle switch.  I simply am looking for and offer something different regarding sessions. 

I don't claim to know it ALL. Hell, I don't want to know it all. I do educate myself on the fetishes that I partake in, offer, or am curious about.  Professional switches are not prostitutes or escorts.  Although some are both, not all.  I personally only offer non-sexual sessions. 

There are many reasons someone chooses to see a professional switch. 

- You are new to the lifestyle or new to a specific fetish and wish to explore in a discreet and safe environment.

- No, time and or desire for a personal relationship. Yet, you still desire to play. 

-Not a willing or able to participate or meet those within your local BDSM community. (ie munches, public dungeon, or play parties).

-Married or otherwise attached.