ProSwitch & Fetish Model

Sunday, April 7, 2013

How Do I Become One of Your Personals?

On a personal level, I am in a wonderful relationship with an amazing man. He is extremely supportive of my choices regarding my modeling, website and as a professional switch. We are a poly couple and I am looking for several personals.

I am looking for a FEMALE sub/slave who would serve me on and off camera. I will ALWAYS consider taking a crossdresser or tgirl. The only male personals I am considering at this time are men who wish to serve me both on and off camera and are into strap on play, trampling, and taking part in boy/boy play or financial slaves.

Becoming my personal is not easy and it's honestly something that many can't obtain. It is earned through service and devotion. Being my personal sub/slave is far more than just being my personal video slave although to earn my collar you must first serve as my video slave.

If taken as a personal sub/slave our dynamics would extend beyond videos. You would be my property and although I respect all limits and protect my property to the fullest you would be my property. Not my girl friend, not my boyfriend. My property. To me there is a difference. The difference being the power dynamic will ALWAYS be there if you wear my collar.

I do currently have some wonderful video slaves and am always looking for other video slaves/subs. What is a video slave?

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Tuesday, March 12, 2013

A wonderful find!

Today, while looking through profile of locals in the Baltimore area, I came across a woman who makes beautiful, elegant, custom jewelry. These pieces IMO can easily be dressed up or down. Which makes it the kind of jewelry I would wear and wear often.

NaturallyAdorned pieces include leather and hemp chokers, collars, necklaces, anklets and bracelets.

She and I are currently discussing her making me a pair of custom footies that would have an ankle bracelet, a decorative piece that sits on the top of my foot, and attaches to a toe. Yummy! I could think of some footies I would love to tease with that in videos and pictures! Lol

She sent me a sample of what she is currently working on, an anklet done in Hello Kitty colors. It's really pretty, even to a me isn't all that into Hello Kitty.

She currently does not have photos of that up, however; she does have some other beautiful Hello Kitty pieces including the pink stitchtherapy w/white steal ball chain and Hello Kitty pendant and a chocolate, red, andwhite leather with a sparkly Hello Kitty pendant. For all of the Hello Kitty fans she has tons more but these are my 2 personal favorites.

Another one of my personal favorites include fantastic choker called HerAuthority. This is stunning and would look wonderful with a corset.

I also truly enjoyed this red and black hemp choker andbracelet set. All that is missing IMO from this set is a matching anklet! :)

Needless to say, if any who wishes to treat me with a surprise from her selection could!

What is a foot slave?

What is a foot slave?

A foot slave is a footie, someone that enjoys feet and is sexually aroused by feet. They might enjoy foot worship (clean or dirty), foot worship with nylons or socks on (clean or dirty), they also enjoy a woman's feet in heels, sandals and adorning foot jewelry.

My foot slaves MUST be willing and able to pamper my feet. This includes but not limited to taking me to get a pedicure, purchasing shoes, funky socks, and or nylons.

A bonus would be if they were willing to worship my feet on camera.

I do take foot slaves who are not local but simply desire to pamper and worship my feet. This is done through gift certificates from my spa. Since you cannot join me for my pedicure, I would take pictures during it and send them to you. My gift and my tease to you.

What do you get, as my video slave?

What do you get, as my video slave?

I am often asked what a video slave gets out of serving me- it seems obvious what I get out of it. I get your service, your attention, your desire to please me. What do you get, as my video slave?

I consider a video slave or sub, a service oriented person-who is fueled by the desire to “do” something meaningful for me. Something that they know is going to benefit me and make my life easier.

Although I am in total control of my video sessions, this is the video slave’s opportunity to be pleasing, to express their desires, to allow me to push their limits and boundaries. The video sessions are intimate and a true bonding time. Dominance and submission is anchored in the mental body, there is power exchange between me and my video slaves. Both during the scene and when we are simply having a casual conversation or time together. You are not my boyfriend or girlfriend and you will never be treated as such.

Some think that the only time a video slave serves me is during the video sessions. However, when the camera is not on you still are expected to be pleasing. To conduct you in a manner that reflects well upon me and those within my fold.

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Collar Me Link & Discussions

I participate in the discussion forums on CollarMe, I have of and on for years.

Collarme.com - The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

Recently there have been some wonderful and educational threads that I have had the pleasure of participating in.

On the General Forum, there is a great discussion regarding financial domination and if it a legitimate fetish or kink. I would invite any financial domme’s or financial subs or slaves to join in the conversation.

Warning: Sometimes, monkeys come out and toss shit around. Please don’t feed them! Simply ignore them. Hide is a great feature.

Is financial domination a legitimate form of D/s?

On the Ask a Mistress Forum, I started a discussion about how professional dom/mes, subs and and switches screen prospective clients.

I would love to hear from other pros and or those who use professionals.

Screening as an independent professional.

Financial Domination

Financial Domination, though often misunderstood, is both a valid fetish and a very powerful form of power exchange.

To have a fetish to be financially dominated is not any different than someone who is a foot fetishist. The focus of a foot fetishist if feet, while the focus of a financial dominant or financial sub,slave, and or pay pig is money. The submissive / slave gets a rush when they give money to their dominant. This is a very real and intimate form of power exchange.

The money a financial sub/slave or pay piggie gives his owner is called tribute. Tribute is a cash amount that is agreed upon after a relationship has been established and there has been a detailed discussion about the sub/slave or pay piggies income, expenses, and household responsibilities.

There are also those that tribute through gifts off wish lists or buy purchasing varies items for their financial dominant. Many submissive and slaves who practice this form of financial domination do so because it allows them to feel a part of their owners every day life.

Some financial dominants specialize in ruining their slaves, while I personally and more conservative because I know that a broken toy is a useless toy. There are MANY men who fantasize about being ruined or taken advantage of. However, I have found that this form of financial domination is not for me and typically very fantasy based.

Many financial submissive and slaves also enjoy humiliation along with the financial domination. These are my pay piggies, cash cows, and worthless worms. Some even like to be objectified and or ignored for days at a time. These things feed into their craving to be humiliated.

Although many financial dominants are strictly online, I also offer in person financial domination. These include real time interactions with my financial subs/slaves and money piggies. My real time slaves are allowed to do things like take me on shopping sprees to department stores, grocery stores, or to the spa.

Video Slaves

What is a video slave?

A video slave, is a service sub / slave that I use in fetish sessions that are done on camera. These sessions may be with me or with other people of my choosing. The videos are then used at my discretion either on my websites or sold to other producers.

A video slave MUST be 18 years of age and provide a valid state ID.
A video Slave MUST sign a model release.
Both are legal 2257 requirements.

Who can be a video slave?

Anyone can be a video slave. Regardless of age, body type, gender or sexual orientation.

I am ALWAYS looking for female, CDs, trannie, and male video slaves.

Me & J

When and where do you shoot?

Sessions are done Tuesday - Thursday. They usually last between 1-2 hours although longer sessions can take place under certain circumstances. I do look for those who are committed to meeting with me at least 1 per month.

What fetishes do you do in videos?

These are the primary fetishes that I do, although I may occasionally do others. Keep in mind that I dictate what I shoot and when and use the video subs/slaves that most flexible first.

Foot Worship (clean & dirty)
Face Sitting / Smothering
Ass Worship
Fantasy Wrestling
Bastinado
Beat Downs
Trampling
Strap on
CBT
Bondage
Beat Downs
Ball Busting
Cunt Busting
Bristol Stomp
Scissors

Please note: If you tell me you only want to do 1 or 2 things in specific dynamics, that is a private session and you MUST pay for that. Example, if you say I only want to do smothering and foot worship with only you, THAT is a private session and not you serving me as a video sub/slave.

How do I become one of your video slaves?

If you are interested in serving me as a service sub/slave and more specifically a video slave you MUST email the the following to kndvideo@gmail.com.

1. Tell me why you wish to serve me as a video slave.

2. List all of the fetish from the list above that you are willing to do. Also tell me if you are willing to top me if I so desire it. Keep in mind even if you top me in a session I am still in charge and you are simply pleasing me.

3. List your limits and any health conditions I need to be aware of. Tell me if you are willing to top,bottom, switch. As well as wish of these apply to you and what you are willing to do boy/boy, boy/girl, girl/girl, or group.

4. Do you require a mask or not? (keep in mind although masks may be worn, I do prefer not to have a one worn)

5. What days and times are you available to shoot?

6. Personal Information:
Name:
Age:
Gender:
Height:
Weight:
Shoe Size:

7. Please attach a full body and face picture. If a female, CD, or T-gurl please also attach a foot picture.

My BDSM Check List

This is a BDSM checklist that I created. Feel free to copy and past it to a word document and print it out so that it is easier for you and or your partner(s) to complete. I tried to add the fetishes and variations of fetishes that I could think of. If I am missing something please don't be shy about shooting me an note.

Financial Domination(Tribute)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Financial Domination(Slave Shopping)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Financial Domination(Slave Tax)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Financial Domination(WebCam Worship)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit

Activity	Done	To You Rate	Done	To Others Rate
Anal play	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Cane	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Corporal punishment(Paddle)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Corporal punishment(Open Hand)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Corporal punishment(Ruler)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Corporal punishment(Wooden Spoon)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Corporal punishment(Hair Brush)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Corporal punishment(Belt / Strap)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Corporal punishment(Rubber Hose)	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Target - Legs	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Target - Ass	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Target -Genitals	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Target - Breasts	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Target - Back	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit
Target-Feet	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit	Yes / No	Must do Curious 5 4 3 2 1 Hard Limit